Simple self-care

Self-Care | Healthy UNH

Self-care doesn’t have to be fancy or complicated.

I used to think self-care meant something big, flashy or time consuming – think getting nails done, shopping trip, or fancy baths complete with candles, a book and a favorite beverage (not that there is anything wrong with those wonderful activities).

But sometimes, you just don’t have time for those things, or that’s not really what your body NEEDS!

It became abundantly clear to me, when I found myself running on empty, that self-care can be so simple. It is taking time to care for my mind and body. My health is important. And the time I take to invest in me, produces a better version of myself, so I can invest more in those I love.

Self-care is an INVESTMENT in ME and I am WORTH IT!!

Here are a few SIMPLE self-care tips. Nothing groundbreaking, but they’re good reminders nonetheless. Because let’s face it, we stay so busy and put others first, so even the basics slip our mind!

Here are 3 things to focus on THIS WEEK!

  1. Get more Sleep!

I know, shocking right?! But it’s so easy for our to-do list to keep us up late at night! Making that choice to go to bed and giving yourself the time to get a full night’s sleep (or as close as possible), allows your body to reset and recharge. This leaves you in a better mental and physical state to take on the world the next day! This is something I struggle with; I am working on it because I have seen the difference it makes in my next day.

2. Get Movement into your day!

Your body was created to MOVE, it craves it! Movement doesn’t have to be sweat dripping, heart pounding cardio. It can be as simple as stretching, walking, yoga or my favorite Pilates 😊. Movement boosts your energy, mood, and your health. It’s a simple win!

3. Give yourself Space!

You need space. And what I mean by that is you need a little time to yourself. I know it can be hard to do, especially if you have little ones at home, but you CAN create it. Waking up a few minutes earlier or asking a spouse/loved one to help watch the kids for even a few minutes, can give you the metal mindset shift you need. With that time, do what fills your cup – read, journal, pray, get in some movement, heck sit in *silence*; whatever your body needs. Not sure? Sit and mediate, the answer will come to you.

I hope you found this a good reminder of the value of pouring into yourself. You are in charge of your health, make it a priority!

What are your thoughts of self-care? What do you enjoy doing to pour into yourself? Where do you struggle? I would love to hear from you! Comment below or reach out on social media!

With Grace,

Top 5 misconceptions about pilates

Ever since I started teaching Pilates and talking to people about it on a regular basis, I have come to realize most people don’t really know what Pilates is. So I thought I would try to debunk some misconceptions or pre-conceived notions about Pilates I’ve heard floating around.

Before we dive in, if you are new to Pilates I would highly recommend you start by reading my posts “What is Pilates” and “Benefits of Pilates” to give you a basic understanding of the practice of Pilates.

Alright, let’s dive in!

  1. I can’t do Pilates, I AM NOT FLEXIBLE! I can understand why this is a concern people have, because it may appear like you need to be flexible to do most of the moves, but you don’t! There are ways to modify to make it work for you, flexibility comes with practice. If you are stiff and not flexible – Pilates is for you!!  Pilates is exactly what you need to lengthen your muscles and increase flexibility all over your body.
hamstring pull
hamstring pull with modifications

2. Pilates is TOO HARD! Along those lines you also may be thinking – I am not strong or coordinated enough, or Pilates is for people that work out all the time and are in good shape. Do not be intimidated when you see a challenging exercise and think “I could never do that!”, because chances are you can probably do it too with practice and consistency. I am doing moves now that I would have never dreamed I could do. Pilates is awesome because it is for everyBODY and can be modified to your level of fitness. Make the move work for you; that is how you build up strength and stamina – we all have to start somewhere!

3. Pilates is TOO EASY! You may be tempted to dismiss the many benefits of Pilates because it is low impact, looks “too relaxing” or because it’s not some sweat-fest cardio session. Don’t knock it until you try it! Honestly if it feels too easy, you are probably not doing it right. Pilates is a method, it’s a practice, and it builds upon itself. First you start by just learning the basics, building a little bit of strength and flexibility. Then you start to learn to connect to your body on a deeper level, improving concentration and precision. Focusing on coordination and proper alignment. Eventually you advance to more difficult positions. But it doesn’t matter how long you have been doing Pilates, you will still get work out of some of the most basic Pilates moves, it is just body mechanics.

4. Isn’t Pilates the SAME AS YOGA? This is one I hear all the time! Yes there are some similarities – both are mind/body practices done on a mat. Yoga has deep spiritual roots and has more static holding of poses, whereas Pilates focuses more on building strength, improving core and posture. We move faster, do repetitions of movements, and flow from one exercise to the next. You may find you love both, or you identify more with one or the other. A lot of people that struggle with yoga find that they love Pilates.

5. Pilates is for WOMEN ONLY! Well first off, Pilates was invented by a man, so it is most certainly for both genders. It is true that more women are drawn to Pilates, and I think a big part of that has to do with the strength you can build without bulk. I also believe that men often buy into the misconceptions above, thinking it’s not for them for one reason or another. But regardless of who you are or where you are in your fitness journey, Pilates has important benefits that we ALL need! My husband enjoys doing Pilates with me and is also amazed by how much better he feels when he does it regularly.

Do you have any other questions or concerns about Pilates? Leave a comment or message me, I would love to talk to you about it! Hopefully this has cleared up some of the concerns you may have had about Pilates, and you will join us on the mat soon!

with Grace,

How can Pilates help me?

In case you missed my blog post What exactly is Pilates? here is a quick overview:

Pilates is a mind/body exercise, combining gentle stretching, stengthening, body awareness and deep breathing.

So all that sounds great, but how does that translate into real results I can see?

When Pilates becomes a regular practice for you, you will notice some changes…

  • Your body becomes better aligned– which helps improve posture (which we all need – hello “tech neck”) and helps prevent injuries.
  • You will become more aware, more in-tuned with your body, which leads to better coordination and improved balance.
  • As you do Pilates consistently, you will notice a change in the shape of your body. Pilates helps to lengthen and strengthen – giving you a leaner more toned physique, distributing body mass where it is designed to go.
  • Build up core and back strength to help support the spine, helping not only with posture but those suffering from back pain (which is most of us at one time or another!).
  • Along those lines – the stretching and lengthening of the spine helps to increase the space between vertebrae which minimizes pressure on the nerves and discs.
  • All of your muscles are worked, even smaller less targeted muscles, allowing the whole body to work together more efficiently, instead of certain areas being overloaded.
  • You will become more flexible and improve mobility, which is key as we aim to age gracefully and not be at the mercy of our body.
  • An import benefit for all of us, but women in particular, is the strengthening of your pelvic floor – and there are a lot of health benefits to a strong pelvic floor.
  • You will learn to breathe correctly and more efficiently – which will improve your oxygen levels throughout the body, especially the spine. Deeper breathing increases energy, reduces stress and anxiety, and has a whole host of health benefits.
  • And the last point I am going to make (because I could go on and on) is that exercise/movement in general increases your levels of serotonin and endorphins naturally – giving you more energy, and improving your mood and overall sense of well-being (another way of connecting your mind to your body)!

Are you convinced yet?

As you can tell I am very passionate about Pilates and its many health benefits – because I have personally seen every single one of these changes happen to my body, and health.

I will tell you these changes did not happen overnight, consistency is key, but trust in the method and the process.

Take the time to invest in yourself, this includes BOTH your mental and physical health, you will not regret it.

with Grace,

What exactly is Pilates?

If you are a newbie to Pilates – you may be wondering, what is Pilates anyways? I’m so excited to share my knowledge and passion with you!

Before you dive into practicing Pilates, I thought it would be beneficial to give you a little background into what Pilates is. It’s hard to appreciate something or do it effectively if you don’t understand what it is you are doing! Right?

Pilates was invented by Joseph Pilates in the early 20th century and was originally named “Contrology”, the art and method of controlled movements. Pilates combines gentle stretching, alignment, muscle balance, body awareness and deep breathing. It is great for strengthening and toning your whole body- with a focus on your core, posture, and increasing flexibility. Pilates is a mind/body exercise- aiming to connect and strengthen both the mind and the body.

The mind comes into play when trying to concentrate on certain muscle groups, while relaxing others, breathing properly and maintaining core engagement. Doesn’t sound easy does it? Ha nope, but don’t let that scare you. It is a practice, a discipline, and something that you work towards – I am still working on it every day! It is oh so beneficial and worth the work. Deeping that connection of your mind to your body allows you to relieve stress, clear your mind and be more in tuned with what is going on in your body.

The benefits to your body are numerous- in fact I wrote an entire blog post – How Can Pilates Help Me? – on the benefits of Pilates and how it has impacted my life. But to summarize, Pilates improves flexibility, alignment (think better posture) and builds strength (particularly the core).

There are two main Pilates practices – mat Pilates (which is what I do) and “apparatus” Pilates. The reformer, Cadillac, Wunda Chair and Ladder Barrel are some of the most commonly used Pilates apparatuses. These pieces of equipment can be expensive and typically found only in Pilates studios (not gyms). They are designed to further build upon or accelerate the stretching and strengthening started on the mat.

Mat Pilates can also be done with the use of props – balls, bands, the magic circle and light hand weights.

And all those things are great, but you can get a great work out with real results on literally just a mat! No fancy equipment needed! In as little as 10-15 minutes a day, several times a week, you can make big changes in your body.

Pilates is for everyBODY!

It is low impact, so it leaves you feeling energized, not depleted. And it can be modified to meet the needs of YOUR body that day.

This was just a brief overview, but I hope this gives you a better understanding of what Pilates is and its background. Have you ever tried Pilates before? If not, hopefully this motivates you to give it a try 😊.

See you on the mat soon!

with Grace,

Welcome to Be Grounded in Grace

Like so many things, Be Grounded in Grace was dreamed up as an answer to a problem.

A problem that I once had, and a problem I was hearing over and over – “I don’t have time to exercise!”.

It’s the anthem of busy women everywhere – I don’t have time to take care of myself!!

When life gets busy, the first thing women sacrifice is their own health and well-being. We don’t prioritize breaks for our mental health, and we don’t have time to exercise…get to a gym? Forget about it!!

We all have our own barriers to self-care, what’s yours? Is it time, motivation, direction, money, child- care…COVID??  

I want to help remove some of those barriers for you!

I don’t have all the answers by any means, but I have been there and at times still struggle to prioritize my health. We are in this together! 

Life can be crazy fun, but it can also be crazy hard. And now more than ever I think we need to work on giving ourselves GRACE and showing grace to others.

Be Grounded in Grace was started with a vision of building a positive and encouraging community. I want to support you as you find what grounds you, what brings you back to who you are and who you want to be. Exercise and moving my body is one of the many ways I ground myself. One of my favorite practices is Pilates. There are so many benefits to Pilates and it can be done anywhere with just a mat!

As a certified Pilates mat instructor, I am excited to share my passion with you, while encouraging you to prioritize your well-being both physically and mentally.

Be on the lookout for blog posts- meant to inform, encourage, and inspire you to incorporate mindful movement and intentional living in your day to day. Let me remind you, little changes can add up to a big impact on your health.

I am currently working on online and video options to make Pilates even more accessible. And if you live local to me in Northern Cincinnati, then come check out an in-person class. I would love to meet you!

“Every moment of our life can be the beginning of great things.”

Joseph Pilates

Let’s do this together! Follow me on social media and keep checking the website for blog and event updates!

with Grace,